Systemic Family Constellations
The lotus's roots go deep into the underground soil, underneath roots to roots the lotus rise.
The lotus cannot grow into maturity without the mud,without the nutrients that the mud hosts.
The mud is included as part of the lotus's life cycle.
In the same way, when we begin to include all our experiences,all parts of us, our lives, our families, our communities and our world, especially those parts that we struggle to accept, we begin to experience deepening of our inner roots.
We begin to draw strength from all deep within.
Unprocessed traumatic events cause people to feel stuck, bonded or entangled and we see the effects of unprocessed events in families are felt, relived and experienced across generations. Families stuck in patterns in the present with the roots from the past. Addictions, anxiety, challenges, inability to conceive, suicide, illnesses, stuck relationships, financial challenges etc can all be forms of this unconscious inheritance.
The unconscious inheritance influence the way we re-enact past traumas in our relationships with our self, family, friends, organizations and the world in which we live in.
Family constellations provide a safe avenue to reveal the hidden dynamics that keep us in stuck in unhealthy and/or destructive patterns. The origin of our feelings and experiences may have its roots to a time even before we were born. We work to move to the heart of the matter beyond the drama of daily stories.
At the heart of Systems, we look at three guiding principles:
BElonging
Who has been excluded?
order
Who has taken on a position that is not theirs?
Balance
Where is the "I for you" or "You for me" movement?
In constellation work, we learn that every issue has a solution within it and we hold space to allow the solution to emerge. Healing sentences, long pauses, acknowledgement of "truth as it" are part of the process. Seeing the entire system and becoming present to not just trauma but intelligence passed across generations is a deep graceful process that allows the client/seeker to gather dip by dip into wholeness.
As we resolve our entanglements and bring to light hidden loyalties, we feel part of a bigger whole included into our system. We begin to stand in connected with our system and our resilience heightens. We find ourselves connected yet separate in a healthy way.
Sessions happen either in person or online, in one on one setting or a group setting.