THE ONE KEY TO UNDERSTAND WHEN WE SPEAK OF HONORING, IT BEGINS AND ENDS WITH ACCEPTING PEOPLE FOR WHAT THEY ARE AND NOT FOR WHAT WE WISH AND BELIEVE THEY CAN AND WILL BE AND BECOME.
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|SHE IS AN ATTENTION SEEKER!|
How often we say these words to qualify and define the behavior of children, adults, elderly?
When did you last utter these words? Maybe it was unto your own self or geared towards someone specific, a child, a colleague, your partner, your pet !
As adults, unconsciously, we shut off the blossoming of our daughters and sons, we call them “attention seeker”.
As an adult, I confess how often, I am juggling to be always fully present in this moment.
As an adult, I know your blossoming brushes against our senses and we are many cringing in discomfort as our senses awake to life through you.
Music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=77ZozI0rw7w&list=PL7JP2-Tc0F74ZIANbs4pzatRXX8uiTtjb&index=17
"You don't truly love someone until you love their fate, too." - Bert Hellinger
To you who connect fuller and deeper through sounds and voice, below is the link to the blog initially posted
We love and often we wish those we love were otherwise; different; not addicted; not traumatized; communicate otherwise; acknowledge they are wrong ( from our perspective); believe they are worthy ; choose to free themselves; ne more spiritual; agree with us; heal ; find solutions to their anxiety; scream less; be less; do less; do more; be more etc... These wishes happen at the subtlest unconscious levels.
Hurting Men Hurting Women | Hurting Women Hurting Men
For women who truly seek to engage with men intentionally, then these words must be heard over and over again until they whisper their sense to you.
Women scream for the righteous and conscious men yet we fail to see that men have not been spared from their share of trauma, wounds, pains, shame, guilt and much more.
We live in a world that teaches us that men dominate, while in truth power is centered in the hands of a few who control the system and men are equally puppets of this system, men are over-powered as we women.
Hurting men hurting women
Hurting women hurting men
Music: Kiss the Earth by Ajit Kaur
Precious Hearts, you are not to be handled.
Extract of Podcast
Dear precious hearts,
There is this underlying belief rippeling across the globe that says
“Empowered women are hard to handle.”
Sisters, heaving , paining roaring, whispering, crying, saying
“I am way too empowered, awake, conscious, enlightened, independent for a man to handle.
Man cannot handle empowered woman like me.
My empoweredness makes it hard for men to love me.”
Music “Haseya”, Ajit Kaur
Navigation through Attraction
Extract of Podcast
For the focus of this podcast: We are referring to attractions in terms of human to human – whether you are a woman attracted to men or women, or men attracted to women or men,you are trans, you are queer, you are cis - it’s how you navigate through life with your sense of identity and the relating that you are seeking with the other.
Word of caution: take these words and transpose them
This themed conversation has been recurring for the last two months from working women both in
Attraction – that which has power to evoke to interest or liking in someone else.
Being pulled towards someone, having a liking.
That which ignite the sparks of fire within self towards another.
That which kicks in the flow of emotions evoking this reach to dive into the one who attracts one.
Regardless of how each one of us define attraction for and towards another human being, most of us miss the essence of attraction.
Just because you feel attracted towards someone else, does not imply potentials for a love affair, a dating mate or a life partner.
Attractions are the very basis of creations, had there not been attractions on earth, most of what we know today as inventions, creativity, gadgets, and innovations would not have existed.
Our Men are to Heal
Extract of Podcast.
May you flow those these words and may you be reminded that what matter most are your path and your inner wisdom.
Our men are not to change but to heal.
Healing comes from a space of ownership. It’s a journey of fainted hearts who have choosen to brave their selves. A journey of diving deep into one’s inner waters.
Shunned from their emotions, unclear about what it means to be, most of our men will never heal in this lifetime.
Most of our men fogged from trauma swirling in their bones, they may never own their right to re-claim their lives and open their hearts. “